Secret Vacation

We are currently on a secret vacation, sort of. I'm not sure who exactly we are hiding from. Maybe ourselves? We left last Friday for Florida and have been having a nice relaxing time before the big gear up to the holidays. It's only 10-15 degrees warmer down here than NC but it's warm enough to swim! The kids are loving the pool and I have read 4 books already. It's just that we haven't advertised that we are away. Maybe we feel a little guilty. Yeah, I know we do. Since we live in NC and have this fantastic house, it feels weird to go on vacation but really life is a lot like vacation. BC is off work, kids are off school, and I'm.....well, sort off? BC is helping with the kids.

Tonight we are at the Dive In movies. The resort we are staying at has a massive screen they put up at the pool. The kids are swimming and watching a movie. I'm sitting in my lounge chair. Now where is that margarita?

Christmas pictures

So today was the day that I stress my kids out about getting the yearly Christmas photo. Normally I wait until closer to Christmas so I can be more stressed about it but this year with our move, I wanted to do it early and get our cards out early with the new address. Plus, www.shutterfly.com has them 20% off right now and free shipping. I use them every year to do my cards. I love being able to look back at the cards from previous years that are saved to my account. It's so fun to see how much the kids have changed.

I love getting Christmas photo cards! I always hang them on my fridge for the entire year. If your card doesn't have a picture, I toss it. I feel bad admitting it but really, if there's no picture into the garbage it goes right after I read it. I wonder if this will change how many cards I get this year! LOL! Just being honest!

Friends that are like family

We recently travelled back to NY for a week. It was really crazy. We had only been gone two months and during those two months, we were only really alone for 2 weeks because of all the company. It made the trip feel weird. It felt like we never had left. I didn't like that feeling and I'm thankful that we will be putting some distance between us and NY for a while. Christmas will be a perfect time to go back. It will have been 6 months since we had moved and 4 months since we had been there last.

While we were there, BC worked for the copier giant on site. He needed to check in with them and make sure they hadn't forgotten about him. Since we were in my in-laws city, we stayed with them. This was challenging for a number of reasons.

The main reason was how far away they live from the copier giant. They are 45 minutes away! I haven't travelled that far for anything since I left! Everything is right here. Each day we took BC to work on the eastside of the city and then we would visit our friends. This did not make the in laws too happy. June and Ward, mostly Ward, were not pleased by the amount of running around we were doing.

I can't help it! I have friends that are just like family to me! In fact there are times that I feel closer to my friends than I do my family. It's just the kind of person that I am and always have been. We did make sure we had quite a bit of time with June and Ward also. In fact we spent more time at their house than we were expecting.


We are trying to figure out how to work it out when we come in December to see our family (friends) and the in laws without making everyone so angry. Our current plan is to come up to NY the weekend before Christmas and stay with friends. BC will go to work on site and we will visit friends. Then as it gets closer to Christmas, we'll move to the in laws house. My sister in law Phoebe wants to see some of her friends as well so we are talking about the idea of an open house at June and Ward's. Maybe they will be happier if we see our friends at their house?

As if we didn't make June and Ward angry enough, we put some icing on the cake (or cinnamon roll) the morning we left. We were headed to Syracuse and had to be there by 9:30 to watch my friends kids while she took her baby for some testing. BC told his mom that we were leaving around 7:45 that morning. As we are up and getting ready to leave, June is making gluten free cinnamon rolls for BC. I kept thinking, there is no way those are going to be in time. Sure enough, June pops them in the oven at 8 am, just as we are leaving (late too I might add). Yeah, that was the frosting on the cinnamon roll. It went over like a lead cinnamon roll.

Friends that are like family.

We recently travelled back to NY for a week. It was really crazy. We had only been gone two months and during those two months, we were only really alone for 2 weeks because of all the company. It made the trip feel weird. It felt like we never had left. I didn't like that feeling and I'm thankful that we will be putting some distance between us and NY for a while. Christmas will be a perfect time to go back. It will have been 6 months since we had moved and 4 months since we had been there last.

While we were there, BC worked for the copier giant on site. He needed to check in with them and make sure they hadn't forgotten about him. Since we were in my in-laws city, we stayed with them. This was challenging for a number of reasons.

The main reason was how far away they live from the copier giant. They are 45 minutes away! I haven't travelled that far for anything since I left! Everything is right here. Each day we took BC to work on the eastside of the city and then we would visit our friends. This did not make the in laws too happy. June and Ward, mostly Ward, were not pleased by the amount of running around we were doing.

I can't help it! I have friends that are just like family to me! In fact there are times that I feel closer to my friends than I do my family. It's just the kind of person that I am and always have been. We did make sure we had quite a bit of time with June and Ward also. In fact we spent more time at their house than we were expecting.


We are trying to figure out how to work it out when we come in December to see our family (friends) and the in laws without making everyone so angry. Our current plan is to come up to NY the weekend before Christmas and stay with friends. BC will go to work on site and we will visit friends. Then as it gets closer to Christmas, we'll move to the in laws house. My sister in law Phoebe wants to see some of her friends as well so we are talking about the idea of an open house at June and Ward's. Maybe they will be happier if we see our friends at their house?

As if we didn't make June and Ward angry enough, we put some icing on the cake (or cinnamon roll) the morning we left. We were headed to Syracuse and had to be there by 9:30 to watch my friends kids while she took her baby for some testing. BC told his mom that we were leaving around 7:45 that morning. As we are up and getting ready to leave, June is making gluten free cinnamon rolls for BC. I kept thinking, there is no way those are going to be in time. Sure enough, June pops them in the oven at 8 am, just as we are leaving (late too I might add). Yeah, that was the frosting on the cinnamon roll. It went over like a lead cinnamon roll.

Chickenpox

So the latest news around here is chicken pox. Mabel's son came down with chicken pox first. She called all of us to let us know he had chicken pox since all of the kids had been playing together that previous weekend. My first thought was, "Didn't get the vaccine?" Yes, he had. But apparently that doesn't keep everyone from getting it. And apparently my daughter is one of them. Elizabeth came down with chicken pox yesterday. She and Grace are both home. Grace only has a few but Elizabeth has lots of them!

I was opposed to this vaccine. As a new mom, I wasn't educated on all the different vaccines that my son would get. When they went to give the chicken pox vaccine, I laughed. Seriously, chicken pox. Yes, the doctor told me. People die from the chicken pox. I laughed again. I loved having the chicken pox. It was the best sickness I had ever had. I got a whole week off of school and I felt fantastic, except for some itching. I let him convince me to give it to Bubs and then the other two as well.

When I told Elizabeth she had chicken pox, she cried. She tends to be dramatic. I told her to get excited. She just got a free pass from school for an entire week and will get to stay home and play all day long! She stopped crying.

Labor Day

On Labor Day some of my neighbors were out laboring in their yards. Mabel was one of them. I had received this email (excerpt) from her earlier and wanted to talk with her a little more.

"I am so utterly disappointed in some of the people that live on this street. I have only spoken to that new woman 2 times (this is the one that peed on Mabel's lawn). Sally is so toxic that she turns people that don't even know me & to think that woman has just moved into the street really pisses me off!! What I find even more bizarre is that people are still talking to these woman after knowing what they have done & then talking to me!! I cannot & will not be 2 faced! I have way too much integrity & self respect to be involved in this disgusting childish behavior & i am now starting to disconnect myself from these people."

Then she wrote "Good luck being friends wih her. Some of her other friends have just turned their backs on her, I only hope she doesn't do the same to you!".

I took that as a .....well, I won't even say it on here. Anyway, I decided to talk to her face to face.

I can't remember the exact conversation but what I was trying to say to her was that I do not condone the peeing. I do not condone the mean behavior. I do not condone gossiping (what the heck are we doing on your lawn right now?) I've never met this new person that peed. Seriously, what do you want me to do? Essentially she was asking me to give Sally a piece of my mind and stop being friends with her. I reminded Mabel that I live right next door to Sally and I need to get along with her. Our kids are friends, we have to talk each time we let the dogs out at the same time because her dogs will eat mine as a snack if we don't coordinate.

Thankfully Tom (her next door neighbor) was there. He did say that while he doesn't like Sally, they have to get along as neighbors. He also reminded Mabel that she has probably been drunk many a time and made some poor choices herself. She agreed with that but said that act was done out of vengance.

This is really annoying!! The more I think about it, the more annoyed I get. Where the heck are all the sane people??

What are we, twelve?

Our new neighborhood is made up of smart, educated people. Or at least it appeared that way when we moved in. People have great jobs, there are few SAHMs, some dual incomes. We have principals, teachers, tons of engineers and some business owners.

When I moved into the hood, a few people made casual mention about the drama on our street. They call it "Wisteria Lane". I'm sure my readers are not familiar with Desperate Housewives but to fill you in, you don't want to live on Wisteria Lane. People change partners, tell massive lies, gossip, often get hit by cars, commit suicide and get killed. So I probe. That's what I was trained to do. Someone gives you information, you follow up with a probing question to get more detail. This was probably one of those instances where it would be better "not to know". While no one is getting killed, there is a lot of drama. Lots of lies and gossip.

From what I can tell there are three teams. Team one is the "Happy Hour crew". They hold a happy hour every Friday night at someone's house. These can be short or these can go on into the morning hours. I've only attended once because of our busy visitor schedule.

I don't have a name yet for Team two. They are definitely several very opinionated people. While this could be said about the Happy Hour Crew, they are less vocal about it around people they don't know.

Then there is Team three, which I am on. It's called Switzerland. I'm trying to stay neutral which clearly they do not want us to do as they have been trying to recruit us on their team.

The team leaders for one and two live directly across the street from one another. They despise each other. And to make it worse, I live right next door to the leader of team one and then adjacent to the leader of team two. Again, I'm trying to be Switzerland.

A few weeks ago, my dad was here for a visit. Happy Hour was going to be at the team leader's house (Sally), right next door. Since my dad was here, and my sister, we declined to attend. When we woke up the next morning my dad had a full report of the goings on from the previous night.

Dad: Your neighbors were having a great time last night!

Me: Oh yeah, they have happy hour every Friday night.

Dad: They kept me awake from 1:30-3:00.

Me: What are you talking about?

Dad: Last night I kept hearing all these voices around 1:30 am. I thought it was a bunch of teenagers and since they were so loud, I thought maybe they were causing trouble. I looked out the window and it was a bunch of adults standing in the street.

Me: Wow, I didn't hear a thing and my room is at the front of the house. Must have been tired. I've heard these people really like to party it up.

Dad: Oh yeah, they were really partying all right. One lady went across the street, pulled down her pants and peed on the lawn.

Me: What? Are you sure?

Dad: Oh yeah, I saw the whole thing! (he laughs) They must have been pretty drunk to pee on someone's lawn.

Me: Show me which house.

He then points to the leader of Team two's house, Mabel. I thought he had lost his mind. I kept asking him if he was sure. He kept laughing and saying, "Oh I'm sure."

Then it clicks. Maybe the Happy Hour crew had someone go over to Mabel's lawn and pee on it!!

Fast forward to this weekend. Theresa (team two) stops by my house, because of kids.

Theresa: "Just so you know.....the drama is full on."

Me: "What?" (seriously I do try to stay out of it)

Theresa: Apparently a few weeks ago, this new person in the neighborhood was at Happy Hour and she peed on Mabel's lawn.

Me: So it's really true?

Theresa: What?

Me: (before I can think) My dad saw the whole thing. I thought he lost his marbles. That is crazy! I seriously can't believe someone peed on someone else's lawn. What are we, twelve?

I can't remember all the details about how it got back to Team two but you know that saying, "Who pissed in your Cheerios?" Yeah, well....Mabel knows who pissed in hers.

Comments, thoughts? I can't post this on Facebook and yet I got to tell someone!